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Brad Morano posted a condolence
Saturday, September 2, 2023
Dear Jason,
This is something I never thought I'd be doing. I'm having a difficult time realizing you are no longer physically here with us after attending the memorial gathering. Looking at all the pictures of you that were displayed made me smile and thought I would be seeing you again. I was overwhelmed with the crowd of friends that filled the room to honor you and pay their respects. I hope you understood how much you were thought of and loved. I wish I had the composure to say a few words at that time. The thoughts were there but I could not put it into words because my heart is broken. Time will hopefully soften my emotions but my memories of you will not change.
I can remember breaking your chops before you could walk and it continued for many years. Like when I would hit you on the way out the door of your home when visiting and saying "got you last". I would then run to get into my car and locked the doors while your face was pressed against the car window. I would be harassing you reminding you I "got you last". I was faster and quicker than you - at that time. I got older, you got older, you got faster, I got slower. I realized I was losing at my game. You were the winner. You "got me last".
When you came to my home you were very interested in the guitar. I could strum a few chords and you wanted me to show you the little that I knew. I let you take the guitar home and before I knew it my "face was melting" (saying from one of your band members) with how well you were playing. Needless to say you surpassed my guitar skills and I never made the time for you to teach me a few lics. I wanted to connect with you the morning after the memorial gathering so I picked up your guitar and played it. I was hoping you could feel it and know that I was missing you. I'll be thinking of you whenever I play your guitars. Please reach out to me whenever you hear your guitars. Hopefully I'll be hearing from you soon!
"Got you last"..........for now
Love you,
Uncle Brad
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DANITA PELLETIERE donated to HOPE GROWS HAITI INC
Friday, August 25, 2023
I am so sorry for your loss. Sending prayers for you and your family.
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Lexie Schlenker lit a candle
Friday, August 25, 2023
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Lexie Schlenker Posted Aug 25, 2023 at 10:48 AM
I will never forget your humor, sarcasm, and kindness. It was the greatest pleasure to have known you, and the blessings you brought to your family. I will always remember your smile on your wedding day and playing the oldest version of Mario Bros I’d ever seen with you. Even though I was very bad, you made jokes the whole way through and we both laughed at my scary gaming skills. Rest in Paradise, Jason.
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Jonathan Pacenka posted a condolence
Thursday, August 24, 2023
It all started at the local sam goody. A friend and I were chatting about records and musicians and up walks jason, just hopped right into the conversation like we'd already been speaking for hours together. Within a year we were in a band and writing music. I remember him saying that if we finished an original album he wanted album art of the band members punching bees in the face, but specifically zoomed in as if it was a snapshot from a professional boxing match up. Only Jason. But what I think was more funny is I'm pretty sure he was serious. Making music with Jason was one of the best times, we inspired eachother to practice, be creative and of course melt faces. (Jason's words) I remeber at one point we were naming some original music and we decided on naming one "And the sky smiled" it stuck. A few months later I remember Jason asking what was the inspiration behind naming that song and I said on a clear night when there's a crescent moon it's kind of like the sky is smiling at you and I got that type of vibe from the song we wrote. He smiled and nodded in approval. Jasons inspiration went well beyond music. As we spoke throughout the years we talked about how to better ourselves in this world and overcome our challenges. When ever I see a crescent moon in the clear night sky I will know exactly who is smiling down on us.
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Cindy Sietsma posted a condolence
Thursday, August 24, 2023
Jason, your smile, humor and spirit were contagious and we will miss you forever. My deepest sympathies to all who loved you. ❤️
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Mary Beth Moore posted a condolence
Wednesday, August 23, 2023
I worked with Jason at Western World and remember his first day. He was a charming young man who sat across from my cubicle and was instantly liked by all! We always shared laughs together. He had the ability to make everyone feel special. Such a loss. Christina and family- my sincere condolences. Sorry I won’t be with you tomorrow but I know Jason will understand because I’m in Lake George.
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Christine Schafer posted a condolence
Wednesday, August 23, 2023
Jason, you were the sweetest soul. I just know you are among so many who love you, and those who are still having this human experience will be thrilled to reunite with you on the other side.
Much love,
Chrissy & Erik
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Nick Hudson posted a condolence
Wednesday, August 23, 2023
I am saddened by Jason's passing . I also need to extend my heartfelt condolences to his wife Christina and their children . Since my retirement from Western World and HCC I have forgotten many people but never Jason. I admired his intelligence, his empathy for others and his many talents. I always enjoyed his company, his jokes and his pitch perfect mimes of celebrity voices. We often had lunch together including just sharing a simple cuban sandwich in the sunshine. He never talked ill of other people and it seemed we covered the world in our conversations, never a dull moment ! We all will miss Jason a great deal .
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Mary Baldizzi posted a condolence
Wednesday, August 23, 2023
Jason was a colleague of mine as we both worked for Tudor Insurance Company. He was a trainee underwriter and was extremely smart and caught in very quickly. . But more than that, he was also a very funny guy that kept our unit entertained. He will be very much missed by his friends and family. Rest in peace Jason..
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Don Sietsma uploaded photo(s)
Tuesday, August 22, 2023
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"Last Wednesday morning the sunshine felt like rain. The week before, they all felt the same" -- The Allman Brothers From the moment I met Jason, I wanted to be his friend. His love of music and Lake George caught my immediate attention. He was an amazing lead guitar player who always played with a smile. We would always talk about our hopes and dreams. He was so much fun to dream with because no dream was too big or too small. My favorite dream was the one we talked about all the time, about retiring from insurance and moving to Lake George to live close to one another so we could kayak, fish and hike. I was blessed to have known Jason and extremely fortunate to call him my friend. Now when I look out at Lake George, I'll be thinking about Jason and what a beautiful soul he was and about the dream that got away from us. I love and miss you so much my friend. You were like a brother to me.
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Steven Joseph posted a condolence
Tuesday, August 22, 2023
Jason was my running buddy at work in Franklin Lakes. Running with Jason never felt like running because we were having such a good time cracking each other up.
During a work day, if I was getting bored or tired in my office, I would always get up to walk over to Jason just to share some laughs.
I told him many times that we should quit our day jobs and start a comedy writing team. He made laughing so easy and made life so joyful. He was unique and special in that way.
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Lisa Gormly uploaded photo(s)
Tuesday, August 22, 2023
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Jason…we were so happy to have you in our family!! I loved your spirit and zest for life! We will continue to share your memories with Abby, Walker and Lily! Love you!!!
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Tuesday, August 22, 2023
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Terry Homan posted a condolence
Tuesday, August 22, 2023
Dear Jason's family. I remember Jason so wonderfully. He was a dear friend and a wonderful coworker. He will be in my heart for a long time. I pray for your grieving time. I'm sorry, but I'm not able to make the celebration of life or dinner as I broke my foot and I'm not getting around well. Thanks for the understanding and I'll keep you in my thoughts. Terry Homan
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Bob Beischer uploaded photo(s)
Monday, August 21, 2023
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I only knew Jason for one year, from the beginning of the kindergarten school year for our boys up to the other day. It is so hard to make friends in your forties but it was so easy with Jason, it was like we knew each other for 25 years. I am so happy that Jason was in my life and I will forever be better a better dad, husband, and man because of him.
Life is full of problems of our own making and we were no exception. We were each other’s network. I could always talk to him about my struggles with no judgement and vice versa. We would talk a lot about what made us anxious and sad, what we perceived as failures and accomplishments. I would always listen to him when it felt like he was alone and I would try to offer my help even when I would always get the same answers. I let him know I was there for him, and he was always there for me, and I really hope he knew that.
Thank you for this year, Jason
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Pat Hill uploaded photo(s)
Monday, August 21, 2023
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I consider myself very fortunate that our life paths crossed a few years ago. We were supposed to be working but we always had more important things to discuss! Your smile and warmth were contagious and your love for your family was powerful. I hope your family finds comfort knowing that you were loved by so many people. May you find everlasting peace, my dear friend.
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Candace Bright posted a condolence
Monday, August 21, 2023
Rest in the Sweetest Peace Jason❤️ Will love you forever xo Chrissy, Walker and Lily , I am so so sorry for your loss
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