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Justin Harrison posted a condolence
Monday, February 20, 2023
I was very sorry to hear of Dave’s passing. My deepest condolences to Joyce and Chuck and the others who loved him dearly. You will be in my thoughts and prayers during this very difficult time.
Dave and I got to know each other at the start of high school and quickly became very good friends. Along with a core group of friends, we did everything together in high school and into college. It was hard not to like Dave and be drawn to him. He was so funny and full of life. Nothing was ever dull when he was around. He had a joke or a funny comment in every situation, ranging from some of the wittiest, high-brow humor to comments that would make a sailor blush. “The Yak”, as we all knew him, got the biggest kick out of saying funny, yet inappropriate, comments in mixed company if he could get somebody to laugh. It was like a challenge to him because he knew you found it funny, but were just trying hard not to laugh because you weren’t supposed to laugh. Inevitably, he’d win the challenge and you’d break out laughing because Dave was just so funny … or because he’d nudged you in the ribs with his bear-like forearm until you did laugh. I think he mostly did it as a way to quickly break the ice and put everyone at ease, which is part of why he touched so many people. Everyone who met Dave immediately felt it was OK to let their guard down around him and be themselves, which made it so easy to get to know him. His boisterous laugh and nudge in the ribs were his way of saying, “It’s OK, bro, you can laugh.”
It was much more than his ability to break the ice with a joke, Dave was entirely comfortable in his own skin and had an uncanny ability to connect with people, regardless of who they were. Shortly after his 18th birthday, Dave got a job working security at the Meadowlands for concerts. They started him down in front of the stage, with all the other muscle, keeping order. But, within a couple weeks, his role changed to being the personal security that walked the celebrity from her dressing room to back stage. Here he was, barely an adult, yet being the one chosen to do arguably the most important security job there. While some might be nervous or awkward around a celebrity, to Dave it was the opposite. He was never the nervous one in situations and instead was focused on putting the performers at ease. Despite his youth, he was the one the celebrities instinctively felt most comfortable around. Dave was the quintessential Sheep Dog, always watching out for others.
I now have boys of my own in high school and there’s not a week that goes by where I am not quoting something Yak said or telling them of a funny situation or a jam he got us out of. He had this bigger-than-life presence and made an impact on so many people. He will sorely be missed.
Dave, Rest in Peace, my friend and may God bless you.
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Mark Knoth posted a condolence
Monday, February 6, 2023
I'm so sorry to hear about the passing of Dave.
My condolences to his family and friends.
It was always a pleasure to see him as a customer at Vintage Vinyl when I worked there and at Aldo's when I'd stop by there.
He always had the biggest smile...
You are missed.
RIP Dave ❤️
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Stephen Minutillo lit a candle
Thursday, February 2, 2023
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Loved this man
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Linda Ward Nicastro posted a condolence
Thursday, February 2, 2023
Our deepest condolences to Joyce and Chuck. With love from the Ward family.
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Ron lipnicki posted a condolence
Tuesday, January 31, 2023
My condolences to Dave's family and friends,we lost him way to soon,I first met dave when he was drumming in the band hades,l played in hades after dave,I always admired his awesome drumming style,later I would run into him quiet frequently at factory studios,he would always show me his cool drum collection and we would drum together,dave also had a beautiful falsetto voice he could sing king diamond perfect! Rest in peace dave we miss you!
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Monday, January 30, 2023
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Jim Alamia posted a symbolic gesture
Monday, January 30, 2023
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We are so saddened by the sudden loss of Dave. I enjoyed talking about old-school metal bands like MOD and SOD from back in the day. Enjoyed many holidays with Dave, funny stories, sarcasm, shots of Tequila and loud rants. Dave left a lasting impression on me related to his dog training and the story of how he met Ava. Rest in peace.
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Bill Holman posted a condolence
Monday, January 30, 2023
I was very saddened to hear of Dave’s passing. My deepest condolences to Joyce and Chuck and to all of Dave’s loved ones. I am glad to have known Dave growing up in Rutherford. Most of us who knew Dave back then affectionately and fittingly referred to him as Yak. Dave (Yak) was a genuine person and one-of-a-kind-friend. He had a natural ability to make people laugh and lift the spirits of those around him. He was always quick with a joke that was followed by his unmistakably raucous laugh and a massive nudging elbow in your side. He was also a true protector to those who he cared for and always had their back through thick and thin. Another unique memory of Dave was his ability to create pithy expressions and sayings about different life situations. Some favorites include:
• That’s the best!
• I think I got something you’ll like.
• Do you want me to talk to them for you?
• Be aggressive!
• That’s classic!
• I’ve got the perception.
• Go get me a chicken thing.
• Thanks for stopping by.
There are many others, some of which are not the most appropriate for this forum. However, there are fond memories behind these expressions and those of us who knew Dave back then still use them to this day and have since passed them down to our children. Rest in Peace my friend.
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Monday, January 30, 2023
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My condolences to all of your family and friends buddy. I hate to hear this as all do. I was hoping to have a black tigers reunion with you and the bunch. We had a such an awesome childhood together with so many of my greatest memories. You made snakes cool even though I always felt bad for the mice. When we took the picture with shaving cream I never imagined that you were practicing to shave your head lol. We’ll all miss you buddy. Rest in peace pal.
P.S. you got to love those Polaroid pictures lol
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Eddie Night uploaded photo(s)
Sunday, January 29, 2023
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My condolences go out to all of Dave’s family and friends.
He was a great human being and we will all miss him dearly.
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Sue Alamia posted a condolence
Sunday, January 29, 2023
We are very sorry about Dave’s passing.
I remember when Jim and I met Dave for the first time dressed in his black leather vest on New Years Eve at our house over a decade ago. We’ve shared many family occasions together over the years - birthdays, weddings, Christmas, baptism and even bowling. One of the more memorable times is when Karen planned to have us all meet at Tierney’s Tavern to celebrate Alexis’s 21st birthday at midnight. We all laughed and cheered Lexy turning 21, what a fun night together with Dave, especially. Looking back at all the pictures from these occasions Dave always had on a big smile. Dave, you will always be remembered and we will smile too looking back at those memories with you. ❤️
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Tim Allen posted a condolence
Sunday, January 29, 2023
So many good times…we made some good music together…still in shock man…another god of thunder up there now…going to miss u brother.…u where a great drummer…n are a great friend.
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Vanessa McNally posted a condolence
Sunday, January 29, 2023
I’d like to send my sincerest condolences to his family, and all loved ones. I would go to Aldo’s every Sunday and sometimes spending half my night sitting outside with Dave chatting about life. He was always a kind soul, a gentleman, a clown. His infectious smile always changed my mood, and made Aldo’s my safe place whenever I was having a tough time of my own. rest in peace, my friend. You will not be forgotten, not by me, and by all.
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Jill Aronoff posted a condolence
Sunday, January 29, 2023
Dave always came with a big smile and a story. I enjoyed sharing both with him. He was smart and passionate about the things he loved and a kind bear of a man. Thank you Dave for sharing all of that with us. -love and peace ♥️
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Saturday, January 28, 2023
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Saturday, January 28, 2023
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Dave was a true brother … a kind hearted soul … Intelligent …. Talented than most professional drummers in the main stream … I am so sorry to hear of this news .. even though the years have been many since we spoke …. Always think of the times together and the music we made together …many lives he touched ….
See you on the other side brother ….
Todd Riccitelli
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Saturday, January 28, 2023
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Saturday, January 28, 2023
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Saturday, January 28, 2023
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Karen Albanese posted a condolence
Saturday, January 28, 2023
Dave was the very definition of an old-school, tough as nails, strong-willed man. He was from another era. Not many of his kind remain. Although the world evolves and its views on such things change, my daughter, Alexis and I took comfort in the consistency of his character - his moral convictions and physical and mental toughness. He was our rock. He made us feel safe. The two of us, along with our much-loved dog, Ava, comprised what he often referred to as, "his girls."
In many ways, Dave is much like his childhood hero, Charles Bronson. A man he often compared to his own father, Butch, who was his ultimate hero. Like Charles Bronson, he was complex and complicated. Unique men who possessed characteristics so rarely found in a single individual. Both physically imposing men, who could seemingly take down an army of men in one foul swoop.
However, there was much more to them than that. They were equally intelligent and artistic, pensive and thoughtful, guarded and private. And they always played the long game. Dave had the uncanny ability to work out complicated scenarios to the very end, level-headed and disciplined, always thinking of his final move while the rest of us struggled to start the game.
Dave made a statement whenever he walked into a room. He could intimidate with a single look, but he was also a gifted artist and lover of nature. After a hard day of yard work, he often enjoyed sitting next to the beautiful fire pit he built to take in the breeze and admire the small forest of trees and wildlife behind our house.
He was a lover of dogs - a several-times rescuer of lost, abandoned and sometimes abused dogs. He found homes for many, including our own.
Dave and I were together for over twelve years. In many ways, he helped raise my daughter. He referred to Alexis as "his daughter." He was proud of her and often beamed when he said, "I taught her that" and "she takes after her old man." He meant himself. He loved her so very much. We were an unconventional family, but when things were at their worst, we stuck together.
We spent years exploring our great love of music and film together. We devoted countless hours, sometimes entire days and nights, pouring over and dissecting the works of our favorite musicians: Jimi Hendrix, Gary Moore, Steve Ray Vaughan, Buddy Guy, Rush “Neil Peart” and the list goes on. He taught me about the world of drumming and exposed me to a side of music I never knew existed. He created beautiful drum pieces and played them for me over the phone.
In the end, Dave was my friend. I miss my friend dearly. Through all the ups and downs, highs and lows, we loved each other. He is in my heart, and he will remain there forever. I love you and I miss you.
Karen Albanese
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Todd Riccitelli Posted Jan 28, 2023 at 8:16 PM
So sorry to hear of this ….. Dave was an original … for a time … we are as close as bothers ….. I’ve always thought of him … Even though the years came between us … I was very upset when I heard of his passing … and have been thinking of and our times together endlessly this week …
My condolences to you and your daughter and his mom….and rest of the family and friends at this difficult time.
Todd Riccitelli
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Saturday, January 28, 2023
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Alexis posted a condolence
Saturday, January 28, 2023
Dave - You showed me so much strength, love and laughter. You showed me how a father should be: strong, protective, caring and loving. You were and will always be mine and Ava’s “old man” like we would say - a pretty cool one at that.
I will be sure to look out for our girls like you looked out for us. I will be strong just like you taught me.
One of my favorite memories is the one night we were teasing my mom because she said some old timey phrase. You and I kept going back and forth trying to one up each others old timey phrases, like "take a gander" or " "the bees knees". Laughing for hours, probably driving everyone else crazy. You and I were bonded like that.
You introduced to me to the best horror, old movies and music. I knew it was important to you, so it was important to me.
The holidays were our favorite. I would decorate like crazy just so when you came home from working your two hard jobs, you’d come home to joy and fun. I knew it meant a lot to you.
I’ll cherish those memories forever. Every single one of them.
As expected, I wish we had more time. One more hug, one more I love you honey. You’d probably tease me for all of the tears. I will find strength through your own strength and teachings. I’ll do my best to keep your memory alive.
One of your favorite things was that I was always positive even in trying times, referring me as “sunshine”. So here is my sunny thought about this stormy situation: I love learning new things and hearing new stories about you through the important people in your life.
At the end of the day, you know, I’ll love you forever and think about you always.
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Saturday, January 28, 2023
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Dave’s positive energy has always been so infectious. He will be missed. My thoughts and prayers to the many who love him. Ross
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Saturday, January 28, 2023
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Sincerest condolences to the family. I've know Dave for 25+ years. We first met when he joined Hades, and I've been a tenant of his studio for about 20 years now. There was always a solid handshake and a huge illuminating smile whenever we met. We loved to chat about music, and he never failed to address me as "brutha". He was a solid dude, and he will be sorely missed by all that he came in contact with. He was gracious enough to be the subject of my band's single cover a few years back. God Speed Big Dave!
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Saturday, January 28, 2023
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I am so terribly sorry for your loss. Dave was like a brother to me and the bond as both a roommate and bandmate took that to an even higher level. He is sorely missed by many and while he was here he brought a smile to every person and situation he was ever in. In thinking of a fond memory that I have of Dave, I would have to say that when we lived together in Clifton, NJ I would often hide when I heard him coming up the stairs and try to scare him and tackle him from behind when he entered the room. Just like Kato and Inspector Clouseau in The Pink Panther. I succeeded in shocking him a few times but never could I best him because it was like tackling an immovable object. Plus he would just back up into a wall and crush me against it! Living with someone else can be tough but aside from him always leaving dirty dishes in the sink, we got along real well. We were motorcycle buddies as well and our musical endeavors were a pleasure to engage in because we were always on the same page and pushing each other to up our respective games. Him on the drums and singing and me with my singing. Dave will always be remembered often in my mind but I am sure that is the case for many others who he touched during his brief stay on Earth. Here is a picture of Dave with me, Clint and Justin when we had the band Autumn Hour together. Rest in peace brother and in time, I will see you once again.
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Saturday, January 28, 2023
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Dianna Natale posted a condolence
Saturday, January 28, 2023
Dave was one of a kind. He always looked out for me and always protected me. His laugh was contagious. I will miss him forever
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Donna diaz posted a condolence
Saturday, January 28, 2023
Q: How did you meet David?
A: Dave adopted a dog from me and Kim back in 94 Maggie .
Maggie came from a terrible situation and his family made her the best home ever I remember walking in and they had her picture up on the table they cherished her. His love for animals was just like mine and we kept in touch forever he wound up being a musician who also knew my mutual friends and he was the most wonderful human being we just recently reconnected both having hardships in life and he was literally there for me every day offering words of advice and strength. Typical of Dave to always think of other people first. This world will miss his talent and smile .
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